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Engagement and other society

 Hi There, How does an individual feel unique ? Don't we all have the need to feel and think that whatever we do is very different and in someway other people will not completely understand it as thoroughly as we do.What is considered as a complete life anyways ? Is it like we all have a set of check boxes which the society expects us to fill and fit in ?.There is always this invisible eye which is kind of watching us all the time and checking if we don;t ward off to the path less taken. We all have many such events in life.One of them being Marriage.In no other event,do we see the invisible society in play at large ( this would be the first major one ) in our life. The first question being , why to get married at all ? Can't I just stay how I am and be happy ? How can I be happy when I base my happiness on another new person ? First off,how can I marry some one who is a complete stranger and take a blind leap of faith assuming ( hoping ) things would work out fine as we move a
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A big decision and a better Intention

Hi There, There are so many things going on in my mind right now.I always resort to writing as it gives me a third person view of the various thoughts and perception and helps me to Clear my mind.Do I begin by telling "Thank you" first , before anything else ? How do you validate a thought / action and a corresponding decision that comes out of it ? It might be easier to look back to things and connect them to get a pattern that satisfies one's self. We all do that from time to time.We all have uncertain times and sometimes it would be better to just go with the flow and sometimes we might want to question the flow.To be honest,talking to you yesterday felt like talking to someone with I have known for a while.I know it is very difficult to get to know a person within a specific time period.We all try our entire lives to make sense of who we are and what we are supposed to do.When you are in a social setting and a collectivist society as ours,it becomes even more ha
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What makes an Experience Unique ?

Hey You, Welcome.Thanks for visiting my blog.I have finally decided to take certain thoughts and emotions out of my mind and allow them to roam naked here without any social inhibitions.There is an important question I am often getting these days.What makes an Experience unique ?.I firmly believe that our worldview is shaped by our Thoughts,Actions,Expectations and finally Experiences.We all want to believe that we are existentially unique.In other words,our vantage point makes our worldview unique.In any given environment,no one experiences a experience the way we do and that is what makes our happiness and griefs unique and we want them to belong only to us.But more often than not,the way we experience an experience is tinted by the expectation we have in due course of the process.I am sure you have had events which you've thought to be a life breaker at that point of time.Break-up's,bereavement or even something simple as a realization can be so painful and confusing that
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